THE FLASHES

The Twenty-First Flash

You know that Imam Ali (ra) and the Ghawth-i Azam (quddisa sirruhū), through the extraordinary karāmāt manifested in their writings, made reference to you on account of your sincerity. With compassion, they offer you consolation for the hardships you endure and implicitly praise your devotion to the Qur’an.

Have no doubt that their attention is due to your sincerity. If you knowingly compromise that sincerity, you will suffer the consequences. Remember the Merciful Warnings in the Tenth Flash.

If you wish to receive the support of such spiritual heroes and have them as your masters and guides, you must attain pure sincerity, in accordance with the profound meaning of the verse:

وَيُؤْثِرُونَ عَلٰى اَنْفُسِهِمْ

Give preference to your brothers over your own nafs in matters of honour, rank, the attention of others, and material benefits that gratify the nafs.

Even though conveying a subtle and beautiful truth of īmān to another person is, in itself, an innocent and praiseworthy act, it is better, whenever possible, to leave even this task gladly to another brother, so as to guard against egotism.

If, however, you cannot restrain your nafs and wish to convey such precious truths yourself in order to earn thawāb, there is certainly no sin or harm in doing so. Nevertheless, bear in mind that this may weaken the sincerity that binds you together.

 

The Fourth Principle

You should regard the virtues of your brothers as your own and take grateful pride in the esteem in which they are held.

The Sufis observe principles such as annihilation in the shaykh and annihilation in the Prophet. I myself am not a Sufi. Nevertheless, the principle of annihilation in the shaykh may find a valuable application in our own way as annihilation in one's brothers.

Among brothers, this principle is known as tafānī, meaning mutual self-effacement in one another. It entails setting aside one's own virtues and interests and turning one's attention instead to the virtues and feelings of one's brothers.

In any case, the essence of our way is brotherhood. It cannot be likened to the relationship between father and son, or between a shaykh and his disciple. Rather, it consists of bonds of genuine brotherhood, within which, at most, a relationship of teaching and guidance may arise.

Since our way is the way of khalīliyyah, it is founded upon sincere friendship. Such friendship requires us to be close friends to one another, sincere companions, appreciative comrades, and brothers who hold one another in esteem.